Signs of Getting into the First Base

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After series of dating and the “getting to know each other” stage, trying to determine your date’s interest on you would basically depends on reading between the lines and his actions toward you. Knowing the right way to identify those clues is a great chance to lit the spark.

However, it is not as simple as what you may think. This is because human signals are complex and hard to determine.

People are good in identifying and knowing someone’s not interested. However, people are not really good in knowing when someone is.

Signs that may help you identify that you are progressing to the next level

During the dating process, men have secrets that women are really unaware of. On the other hand, people tend to share simple signs which you may try to consider and say that you’re not getting lost.

1. Utilization of the eyes and ears

Human tends to relax and become comfortable with the people they like. Leaning closer during conversation, smiling often, and laughing together are the signs that your date are interested with you.

2. Feeling of connection

Human beings are such unique individuals. They have different attitudes and behaviors. However, it feels like magic when people become close to each other and get more intimate. They tend to reflect each other’s behavior.

3. Getting a little closer

Signs that a person really wants to have a deeper relationship are standing closer and keeping the eye connection over a long period of time. However, an eye contact and a touch would depend from one person to another.

4. Restrict distraction

During this time, you now both stands on a face to face position with each other. You hold each other’s hand and gaze directly into each other’s eyes. These are much clearer signs of progress to an intimate stage.

However, this is also the point when your attention are switching to those things that you are doing or focusing more about your smell. These things are part of the norm but you must not be distracted with it.

5. It is okay to ask

It is okay to move to the next level when all the signs collide. However, it is not a good idea to make it all out. Attempting to do the first kiss is one example of mirror behavior. On the contrary, it is also a good idea to ask before making some move. And sometimes, asking verbally is an act of sexiness.

6. Be ready to be wrong

A mirror behavior of some movements like titling of the head and parting of lips are great signs to start a kiss. Just do it gently. Save the other stuff later.